Dasvidaniya ki dus kahaniyan…..
iView Author: CRAZYRALS (Banglore, India)
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“Dasvidaniya ki dus kahaniyan”
In my previous post I had written about why I chose to watch Dostana over Dasvidaniya . After having watched strong>Dasvidaniya, I still stand by that post. I had also assured that I have nothing against the movie but it was a decision of which movie would be more enjoyable in theatre and Dostana did entertain.
Anyways, Dasvidaniya as predicted, was a nice solemn movie. I liked
the movie in bits and overall, but here and there I felt the
screenplay was a little weak. Especially in the second half, it just
meandered for a while before it came to a fine ending.
I loved Vinay Pathak [amar kaul] in the movie, but I did not like the
hair-do. I have a grouse against all directors as to why should the
hero sport such hairdo to look innocent and genteel. Why can’t
genuinely good people not have a good hairstyle. Why should surinder
sahni comb his hairs that way or why should akshay have his hair
partition from that low[just above the ears as in dhadkan/dtph/yeh
dillagi]?? Why can’t the normal hairdo work??
Talking about weird hairdo’s, well ranvir shorey also sported one. And since he was the first flamboyant charatcter that amar kaul came across, he modelled his inner voice on this character. That was a nice
touch, but the inner voice was a little too loud; subtlety would have
helped here.
As we all know that the movie is about amar having to face an untimely
death and how he prepares a list of things to do before he dies, the
scene in the hospital where he is informed of this was really well
done; the expression on his face, the crashing of hopes etc. Let me
take you through the movie by way of his ‘to do list’:
1. New car: all of us have dreams of buying a house/car/bike and it
gives us immense pleasure when we actually own one, amar kaul was no
different; he too desired for one but may have postponed it for later.
But now that he has no time, he has to live by the list and fulfil his
desire. So, he buys a shining red chevy. He also happens to see his
brother in the showroom but they don’t feel like acknowledging each
other’s presence; the reason for which is explained later. The joy and
pride in his mom’s words and actions looked so very natural.
2. Guitar: i have always wanted to learn to play a musical instrument
and this story-track just reminded me of my unfulfilled wish. Another
cliche, I don’t know why all guitar teachers have to be goan or
anglo-indian? Anyways, amar kaul goes on to gift his chevy to his
guitar guru; nice touch.
3. Boss ka boss: this track was the most hilarious one, saurabh shukla
was fantastic as the “chomping glory” and his body language was enough
to display his superiority. The detail to minute things was seen when
the boss comes out of his cubicle and walks towards amar kaul’s seat
not knowing where his seat is; really ironical. Another instance was
the bullying sequence where amar and his boss are clothed in school
uniform and it follws the “kya-kuchh nahi” pattern. The moment a movie
induces you to root for any character, we can safely say that the
movie is successful in bringing out the pathos. When amar spills the
beverage on his boss’s head it callled for three cheers.
4. Neha : getting back to someone is one of the toughest thing to do,
especially getting back to someone you loved. Amar’s first and only
love[until then] is still etched in his memory. And making it a point
to meet her was one of the things he wanted to do. He does meet her,
but in what circumstances – she is happily married with a kid. He
still gathers courage and tells her that he has always loved her since
her childhood days; and the manner in which he conveys this is
brilliant, dumb-charade style coz some things are best not said but
only expressed.
5. Rajiv jhulka : its so true that we make the best of friends during
childhood days. Later on, we just make associations as in
college-mates, classmates, study partners, colleagues but rarely a
friend; rajiv jhulka was just that, an old buddy who had grown apart
from amar. Amar decides to meet his long lost friend by way of a
foreign trip. But all his enthusiasm is killed when rajiv’s wife
suspects that amar has landed there to get a free treatment. That was
really heartbreaking and it actually forces him to reconsider living.
Ofcourse the misunderstanding is cleared; but when a broken glass is
joined back the crack still shows. Hence amar does not go back to
rajiv’s house as he wishes to spend the rest of the time on his own.
6. Foreign trip : the trip to russia probably provided the title of
the movie. Well, nothing much was shown aboutt the place becasue that
was not the focus. Just another ‘to do’ item that had to be cancelled
off the list.
7. love [tatiana] : i dont know how far this can be called ‘love’; but
amar likes to call it so. I felt it was more of a situational thing
for both of them, have a guilt-free relationship since they dont have
to take it too far. But amar had never experienced such inbridled fun
and unconditional care/affection, he termed it as love.
8. Vivek : back to his estranged younger brother whom he had seen in
the chevy showroom. He is a director[tv/ads] who now lives separately
because he has been banished from his home. It turns out that he loved
a girl whom his mom did not approve of and so he decided to walk out
of the house as amar could not support his stand. This was very
maturely handled without letting it get too emotional and
melodramatic; there was a pragmatic take on the issue. Vivek does
return home on amar’s request so that he can take care of mom after
amar’s death. Something was missing here, there was not a single scene
of vivek’s wife. I think it got chopped on the editing table. But I
did notice a ‘mtv roadie’ there, sonel singh. She took the call twice
when amar tried reaching vivek. I guess she must’ve played vivek’s
wife; anyways I was surprised to see her.
9. Inform mumma : i had guessed this correctly. People often get to
know of these things by overhearing as in lots of movies. His mother
is terribly shocked and cannot believe it. Here’s where the movie went
a little off-track with amar visting tantric babas etc, that was the
meandering bit. It could have been avoided and a better approach could
have been taken. She should have accepted facts and tried to make his
last days happier, but I guess mom go get frantic and start believing
in all kinds of jadoo-tona; anything that can cure their child.
10. Photo on front page : it finally turns out that amar had planned
his obituary as well and the photo finally appeared on newspaper, but
not on the frontpage.
The movie was a really nice watch and I enjoyed it. By the way, did he
leave anything behind for rajiv jhulka? I don’t think so. He did leave
behind the ‘johny mera naam’ dvd but that was for tatiana.
The movie was heartwarming and made me think for a while that even I
should compile such a list of things to do while I am still alive. So
long…dasvidaniya.
Anurag Kashyap
Abhay Deol
Dibakar Banerjee
Hansal Mehta
Khalid Mohamed
Kundan Shah
Anish Kuruvilla
Jaideep Verma
Manish Gupta
Navdeep Singh
Bhavani Iyer
D. Santosh
Onir
Ashvin Kumar
Ramu Ramanathan
Sudhir Mishra
Pankaj Advani
Revathy
Saurabh Shukla
Shilpa Shukla
Sujoy Ghosh
Suparn Verma
Santosh Sivan
Shashank Ghosh
Shivajee
Pavan Kaul
Partho Sen-Gupta
Prroshant Naryannan
Sam Langoria
Satish Kasetty
I love the scene after he drops off the car dealer in his new car. After he sees that her boyfriend is on a bike, Amar remarks “Bike hi leni chaahiye thi.” It’s classic!
The relationship between Amar and Tatiana is best signified by their song, “Pal bhar ke liye koi humein pyaar kar le, jhoota hi sahi.” I love this movie and is one my favorites from 2008.
@Pratik : i did want to add that bit abt car sales agent, but the post was getting longer so i removed it. it was significant in establishing tat amar kaul is really a simpleton and such things happen with ppl like him
, sorry to be mean but tats wat i have seen and tats wat has been shown in so many movies.
‘By the way, did he
leave anything behind for rajiv jhulka?’
Yes he did… the longer life. Remember, amar always saying ‘bada tu rakh’. I guess here also the longer life is for rajiv.
I may be wrong !
Brilliant movie..! And cassandra, I’m bowled over by your interpretation! I just thought he left the list for Rajiv Jhulka which mirrored all his desires. But, could very well be what you said! At least, I would like to go by your interpretation!
@cassandra : nice interpretation. its almost like ‘meri umar bhi tujhe lag jaye’. yes, i did see him putting the list in his pocket and i was wondering if it was a hint tat rajiv shud prepare a similar list coz he is so far away from home in a foreign land and he needs to set his priorities right. anyways, too much extrapolation here. lemme just go with cassandra’s pov
sorry..wasnt supposed to mean mirroring Rajiv’s desire. I just thought he left the list for Rajiv as a parting gift…
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Thanks people..
i was not sure about my interpretation first.. but now it seems I was right. I remember during this scene some people sitting at the back row were whispering ’saale apne dost ke liye to kuch chod jaata..!!’. Then someone else replied director bhool gaya hoga ye point daalna.
Rals- nice write up.But only thing I want to point is that Vinay Pathak doesnt go to Russia but goes to Bangkok.
Cassandra- that’s a lovely interpretation- lovely way of looking at it.
@Sethumadhavan: bangkok?? really ??
tatiana is a russian name and so was the brief locales of watever they showed. maybe they shot in bangkok. wat abt the movie title??? y wud a russian word be used from nowhere; it cud as well have been called adieu, ciao, tata, birla, ambani … anything
Cassandra-
Applause !!!
I think it was Russia indeed!
rajiv julka ke liye kya ye kuch tha ki uska dost sari umr dosti nibha gaya sachhayi se…aise dost kahan milte hain yaar…
list hi sahi…
the dumb charades scene to say I love you to neha dhupia was beeyutiful….
also when during guitar play his mom’s hearing aid falters the hurry to fix it and make the moment last was lovely…
gaurav’s goofy face during the song was priceless..
The foreign place is indeed Thailand (I’ve lived there so I can confirm). Dasvidaniya is probably a reference to Tatiana, who is Russian.
@ cassandra – great interpretation about what he leaves behind for Rajiv.
You know I realized after watching the movie that the character’s name is Amar, one who never dies (tubelight!). I guess he is ‘amar’ in most ways.
@Pratik : quite a few chars are named tat way; as in anand where he spreads joy while his life is in peril and mili who everybody is looking for “kho gayi to mili, mil gayi to mili”
Absolutely heartfelt movie, it does make you pause and think … about your top 10 list. About people that matters to you. About your legacy. About your priorities.
Vinay Pathak is the new ‘common man’ of bollywood – something that Amol Palekar achieved through his characterizations!
You have given the complete movie out, so it would have been nicer to put “SPOILER” alert in bold.
One more thing: The movie actually encouraged me to write a blog about a music review site, where I wanted to dissect one brilliant song. That’s something I have always wanted to do it – and so I did, http://www.onesongreview.com – and what better way to start the blog than ‘Alvida’ from the same movie. Wonderfully written, composed and sung by Kailash Kher.
a very sweet movie
@cassandra
the best interpretation for what amar left for rajiv. i too was confused as to what was left for rajiv. but what you say makes complete sense.